I am sorry that I cannot help financially at all for I too have a deep need for help with that. I just wanted to tell you to keep your chin held high and know that whatever happens, there will be a way for you to endure it all and come out on top. I have 6 kids, and abusive ex and now I have no job. I really was feeling hopeless myself today. I saw you on here, and I realized that I am not the only one in this situation. Although I am very sad that you are having troubles, I am glad that I was able to connect and just let you know, I am here too. WE will get through this. Trust, faith, perserverence.